tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1556371561007953336.post7204736305779614057..comments2024-03-16T16:44:18.220-07:00Comments on Bad Cripple: Stronger Body Weak Spiritswilliam Peacehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00223601480542461802noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1556371561007953336.post-12348284363347765962010-09-21T08:10:44.614-07:002010-09-21T08:10:44.614-07:00Hi, Bill,
Apologies for coming in so late. Thank...Hi, Bill, <br />Apologies for coming in so late. Thanks to Claire for tipping me over here. I would very much like to leave a pithy and comical comment that would bring a smile to your face, but I'm unsure of using my humor in our thin online relationship. So I will wait until you are at home and can reply to comments before I embark on a form of therapy in which I am not trained. <br /><br />Speaking of going home, the light at the end of the tunnel is not an oncoming train. (Sadly, I love cliche.) <br /><br />Speaking of a tunnel, I believe crying is therapeutic, too. And private if you choose. <br /><br />Speaking of my anticipated humor, I need an answer to this question: are your sores lateral or posterior? <br /><br />Speaking of medical technicalities, KCI is based in my town and the main office tower is near my home. I just went to the KCI site to see if they have a foundation support for patients. Not helpful for you - their foundation only supports children. Go figure. For anyone else who wants a little tutorial in wound care products, see their site: <br />http://www.kci1.com/KCI1/home<br /><br />Information is about all I got to give. BarbaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1556371561007953336.post-74918350974694110002010-09-21T06:42:37.169-07:002010-09-21T06:42:37.169-07:00Hi Bill,
Wishing you Healing and Light your way....Hi Bill, <br /><br />Wishing you Healing and Light your way. I am a single mom of four, in the US. You had asked what do people do who have no support, no family, etc. Well, I am in a sticky situation or rather have been for the last seven years. More than that, but it all started seven years ago, dealing with domestic violence, ptsd, kids with ptsd, kids in need of emotional and learning support due to physically and mental handicap, one child tried to commit suicide, etc. You get the picture, each one of them had BIG issues, I had a disabled daughter, medically fragile, too. I had to learn to lean on social services. I had some support, in emergency situations from family but not day to day, week to week. It wasn't ideal and sometimes it did damage. So my biggest support was navigation through the system here. Reading lot's of books, researching on the internet. Here is a great guy who is homebound and makes great waves from his hospital bed....http://alinssite.info/my-blog-2/ you may even already know him.<br />Well wishing you some peace and good health. Take Care.MyBigMouthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06769313162422219266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1556371561007953336.post-40487158533049948522010-09-20T21:52:58.368-07:002010-09-20T21:52:58.368-07:00In a couple days you'll be at home surrounded ...In a couple days you'll be at home surrounded by people who love and care about you. You'll be bedridden and dependent on them, yes, but remember that they still love you and remember that you'll never be just a burden. No matter how much someone has to care for you, if they love you you will always be giving back.<br /><br />Besides, you're William Peace and if there's one thing I can't ever imagine William Peace doing is being idle and passive no matter how little William Peace can move around. It's an adjustment but I have every confidence in your ability to remain an engaging, vibrant human being. I believe qualities such as that transcend what we can and cannot do.<br /><br />Hugs and much wishes,<br />The Untoward LadyThe Untoward Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18035737424208837888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1556371561007953336.post-81551416216451205432010-09-20T16:26:38.648-07:002010-09-20T16:26:38.648-07:00I found your blog relatively recently via WCD. Am...I found your blog relatively recently via WCD. Am sorry you're going through this - it sounds grim - scary and long and miserable. I'm a total stranger with no personal reference but it sure seems as if bad luck has more to do with your pressure sores than neglect or malfeasance on your part and I can't imagine that blaming yourself makes any of it easier. Of course it's easy for me to say that not being in the thick of it.<br /><br />Anyway - I've wanted to comment for a while. Your writing is terrific. I went back and read your archives when I first found your blog. I hope you get home from the hospital soon and that your recovery improves enormously when you're in your own space again.painting with firehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01578014572547587329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1556371561007953336.post-22114839756313937162010-09-20T15:32:49.723-07:002010-09-20T15:32:49.723-07:00I am kind of glad you can NOT move to Canada for t...I am kind of glad you can NOT move to Canada for the duration of your recovery (or maybe not to my part).<br /><br />I understand the crying. It is a natural response to loss, to pain, to no good choices, to the fatigue of it all. The best doctor I had recently was a locum who asked how I was doing. When I said depressed he told me that if I hadn't said that, he would have referred or deferred some medications because it IS a depressing situation. Emotions are not a crime, though treated sometimes as such.<br /><br />How can I assist with the boredom? Do you like Steam-Punk, or Supernatural Fiction? What kind of focus can you handle with your pain? I can recommend an all region portable player for $35-$25 that works well. I can send you books for free and will (please email me at mpshiel@hotmail.com). Do you need DVD's for pain? For boredom? If you can pinpoint a way, let me know and if I can, I will try to meet it. <br /><br />What insurance does and does not cover baffles me - they cover a power chair with control delay for neuropathy and weak muscles but not a sling. They don't cover the device needed to heal, or the care. Know that I appreciate you writing what is really happening and please let me help as I can.Elizabeth McClunghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03627373214555333537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1556371561007953336.post-7346356263276871362010-09-20T14:47:16.334-07:002010-09-20T14:47:16.334-07:00I am glad you will be back home. Being at home is...I am glad you will be back home. Being at home is likely to take its toll as much as the hospital--company, DVDs (portable player?), music, sun all help, so I urge your family and friends to really be there for you no matter what. If it's possible to change rooms sometimes just to look at different walls, that will also help.<br /><br />There is nothing wrong with being depressed if you find yourself so. It's a normal reaction to such circumstances, and lack of physical movement contributes. In the absence of antidepressants and their side effects, omega-3 helps some people and some of the nerve pain medicines also work as antidepressants and could help with wound pain. That's not advice to use these--just ideas; the nerve medicines can also have strong side effects that should be watched for. Sometimes crying is the manly thing to do. ;)<br /><br />College student or not, Tom still needs you and will need you, so hang in there.<br /><br />Would getting Dragon software help? I haven't ordered it yet but the new versions are supposed to be very useable, and it may help you be able to explore more of the web, watch Netflix from your computer, etc. over the coming months.<br /><br />I'm sorry about this turn of events. Keep your eye on that goal of being up and about again--we're all rooting for you.FridaWriteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03321658097813377806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1556371561007953336.post-39058760581382594562010-09-20T14:43:39.745-07:002010-09-20T14:43:39.745-07:00I'm glad to hear your wounds are improving. I ...I'm glad to hear your wounds are improving. I wish that I could move you to Canada for the duration of your recovery- I am forever thankful for the fortune of being born here, where a large portion of my medical care is covered. I think you are very right, your depression is a normal and perfectly reasonable reaction to your current situation- what you need are financial solutions, not medications and therapy. I only wish that more medical institutions were able to recognize the various reasons for stress and depression in their patients, and that not all of them are medically based, or solved!<br /><br />Feel better soon!<br />strangecrippleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com