As I drove up to Syracuse early this morning I was thinking about end of life issues and how it feels nearly impossible to change other people minds. I find this frustrating in the extreme. I also feel there is a core problem I am missing. So as I pumped gas into my car I was dumbstruck to read an article in the Vancouver Sun. The Canadians I feel have a more nuanced approach to end of life care. I could be wrong but long ago a Canadian Border Guard told me "Unlike you Americans we still value dissent". As I read "Death with Dignity Isn't About Euthanasia, Says Palliative Care Expert". See: http://www.vancouversun.com/health/Death+with+dignity+about+euthanasia+says+palliative+care/9801618/story.html In this article Harvey Chochinov. Here is an excerpt from an otherwise mundane article:
The right to die movement? When death become a right? We are all going to die. Death is a biological certainty. Death is not a right but part of the life cycle. Like Chochinov I believe we need to have a vibrant national debate about how we deal with the end of life. I agree we need to foster a constructive discussion. Jack Kevorkian put this discussion on the front page of every newspaper in the nation in the 1990s. Kevorkian, unknown to many young college students, was a polarizing figure--a ghoul really. He was a polarizing influence. Who I wonder can bridge the gap between people such as myself who oppose assisted suicide and those that fiercely advocate for it in the form of state laws and the push for VSED as a viable final solution. Is it even possible to build a bridge between two mutually antagonistic groups? When I read the rhetoric on both sides I think any sort of common ground will never be found. I hope I am wrong. I am however convinced of one thing: framing end of life, death itself, as a right and forming a right to die movement is inherently wrong. In short, I second Chochinov's call for better medical training and pain management and more--more as in teaching physicians to be kind and compassionate to the patients they treat who are approaching the end of their life or are mere hours from death. This is hard work. Emotional labor too few physicians are willing to engage in. Now that is subject worthy of sinking our collective teeth into.